Dating someone with borderline personality disorder
In my efforts to keep him, I resolve never to be the first one to text him, to invite him to do something, to talk to him at all.I test him, gage his behavior, wait for him to do or say something to convince me he still likes me (or the other way around).
If you feel you must stay in a relationship with someone who treats you so poorly, be sure to have boundaries before things ever escalate.
The problem with a borderline relationship is that things can get so bad so quickly, and you don’t know when it is going to happen, that you can find yourself in a terrible situation with very little notice.
Watch for the following warning signs when dealing with a borderline: What To Do If Someone Has Filed A Restraining Order Against You First, get an attorney to defend you.
Defend yourself to the fullest extent that you can.
Be sure to have no contact with the borderline if at all possible.